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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 07:07 pm (UTC)
Why do you like me so much?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-05 01:44 pm (UTC)
I don't.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 08:36 pm (UTC)
what event has made the biggest impact on your life?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 08:52 pm (UTC)
Being promoted at work/moving to a new store/my sister getting pregnant with my nephew Those three things happened around the same time and that stress started what is now my eating disorder
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 08:53 pm (UTC)
If you could find out the exact date and cause of your death would you want to know?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 09:31 pm (UTC)
Yes. Then I'd know how long I have to do all the things I want and I'd be able to say goodbye to my loved ones.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 11:30 pm (UTC)
No.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-02 01:42 am (UTC)
No way. What if you die horribly!? Personally if I knew that say, I was going to be torn in two by a 16 wheeler truck even if it was thirty years from now, I would live my whole life in dread of that day. Actually I'd probably kill myself the day before so I didn't have to go through it.

I wouldn't mind knowing the exact date, but I wouldn't want to know the cause.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-02 01:57 am (UTC)
No. It'll happen when it happens.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-02 04:41 am (UTC)
This is a difficult one for me. I would want to know so I know how long I have to still have a good time in this world, but... I wouldn't want to know because I would be dreading the day.

That being said, I think I'd ultimately have to say no.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 11:17 pm (UTC)
Do you believe in Karma?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-01 11:46 pm (UTC)
Yes i do, and i hope its true cause i work so hard for it to happen to the people who are mean to me.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-02 01:14 pm (UTC)
I don't believe in karma necessarily, but I do believe in people. I believe that if you do good, people will likely remember you helped them and will be more likely to help you in the future. If you piss people off, people will also remember this; it might mean you might not be helped in the future. You might end up pissing off the wrong person who is already having a bad day; they'll decide to make your life miserable.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-02 04:48 am (UTC)
I have always found anal sex gross and nothing Ive ever found intriguing what so ever but my boyfriend has been trying to talk me into it and I might consider giving in

Which is why Im asking to those of you who have experienced this, is it as horrible as Id imagine, and how bad is it on like a scale from 1-10?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-02 07:37 am (UTC)
You should only do it if you're 100% comfortable with everything about it, physically and psychologically/emotionally. Don't let anyone talk you into doing something that doesn't turn you on. Because if you're not totally into it, then it will SUCK, I promise you.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-02 02:10 pm (UTC)
I wont answer how bad it is on your scale because it's a completely different experience for everyone. However, I will offer some advise. Make sure there is plenty of lubrication, water-based, and that he takes the time to carefully stretch and prep you. Make sure he wears a condom (not just for protection - it will actually be easier for both of you to enjoy it rather than going "bare back"). Also, make sure he understands that if you say stop at any time, that he stops IMMEDIATELY. If you don't trust that he would do this, don't do it.

Best thing to use in the prep process is a butt plug, keeping it in for about 30 mins. But I realize this may be unrealistic for people to get because of age/embarrassment issues. An enema is also preferred to have beforehand (that's how the porn stars do it!) but again it might be unrealistic for you.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-04 08:37 am (UTC)
Personally, I don't enjoy it since it feels like I'm pooping the whole time, but other people love it! So it varies from person to person. However, I didn't do it until I was sure that I wanted to try it (not because my boyfriend was pressuring me) and even though I felt like 0 pleasure from it, my boyfriend enjoyed it and that made me really happy.

It's really important to get yourself ready, though! My boyfriend and I usually use spit as lube...but that won't work for anal because spit dries really fast and isn't as effective as proper lube. I ditto the point the previous commenter said about the condom. It definitely makes clean-up a bit easier, and it'll be more hygienic if you guys want to do vaginal sex afterward (you can just change the condom). Also, when you are showering or alone in your room, use your finger(s) to loosen the muscles around your anus, and have your boyfriend do the same when you are having sex. And make sure you're relaxed.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-03 12:31 am (UTC)
If I call you, will you answer?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-05 01:46 pm (UTC)
No.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-03 02:42 am (UTC)
Is anyone else tired of people who are nice to everyone?

I am talking about the people who won't tell the annoying guy to back off, or for that girl who thinks she knows-it-all to shut up. They basically take everyone's shit and dish out niceness so that others will like them, and no one will think they are "mean".

I am so tired of it. Please, just be a bitch. It's quite fun.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-03 03:44 am (UTC)
I'm one of those people. It's not so much as I want everyone to like me as I just can't bring myself to do it. I want to be a bitch and I've tried to do it but the words just seem to die on my lips... well, not all of them. Occaisonally a snarky comment or two will slip out but it's not always enjoyable.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-03 02:19 pm (UTC)
Personally, I despise people like this. And then I ignore them. If they refuse or are "unable" to stand up to anyone, it's their own fault. I wont waste my energy trying to help them as they cannot - or will not - help themselves.

At some point, they end up deserving being walked all over.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-05 10:30 pm (UTC)
It's not a lack of courage.

It's patience.

Other people just don't get under my skin enough to bring me to the point where I feel I need to "be a bitch". They're just people. :)
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-04 03:22 pm (UTC)
Why can't anything go right?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-05 01:47 pm (UTC)
That's life.
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