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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 03:38 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry. If I'm leading you on, that's not out of malice at all. I'm just confused. Either way, though. I am not going to make the first move.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 03:51 pm (UTC)
gahhh, I feel the same way about someone. I wish I knew what to do. I feel so vulnerable and nervous so I don;t want to make the first move either. *sigh*
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 04:25 pm (UTC)
I made the first move but I can't tell if it made him happy or upset. I've barely seen him since then.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 03:16 am (UTC)
That's great and all except that whenever I make a move, you freakin' bail on me. What the hell? Do you have any idea how confusing and annoying it is?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 04:40 pm (UTC)
I guess you're not being obvious enough - because I'm still getting mixed signals.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 03:38 pm (UTC)
Let me guess, you're a girl, right?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 04:36 pm (UTC)
Yes. Writing about another girl, just to thicken the plot a little.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 06:28 pm (UTC)
The rules change, then. One of you has to make the move, and you can't just sit back and wait. Hell, no girl should wait for the first move to be made. If you're interested, go for it. Otherwise, you don't have room to bitch about them not making the move in the future.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 07:13 pm (UTC)
I know there's really no excuse. This is mainly me still trying to work through my own confusion.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 04:24 pm (UTC)
I've been running for two months and I still can't run a mile without stopping.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 10:39 pm (UTC)
That's okay! If you are just starting running, and haven't really exercised like that before now, then your body is getting used to it. It has to build tolerance. If you're just starting, you can't rush it, or else you risk getting injured, which will set you back for a while.

It really takes 6 weeks to first notice a difference (you can run a little longer, or you lose a little bit of fat somewhere), and 6 months to really be able to notice a large difference. It takes time, and everyone wants to do better faster, but it really is a slow process that takes patience.

Just stick with it, and in a year or so you'll notice a HUGE difference.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 11:47 pm (UTC)
That is so okay! It takes time:)
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 04:41 am (UTC)

OP

:) thanks
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 05:22 pm (UTC)
Ok my dear gay guy friend, all the jokes and vague remarks about being bisexual when previously you were adamant that you're 100% gay are driving me NUTS. I can't tell if you are really joking or if you are trying to tell me something without saying it--and then if the latter is the case, exactly WHAT you're trying to say.
The thing is, I have feelings for you that I kind of wish I did not have (because of all the messy complications) but thought I was relatively safe since you're gay--so this new way of joking is just wringing me inside out. I don't know if you are aware of my feelings or not, but if you don't feel anything for me besides friendship, PLEASE don't lead me on.
I value our friendship very much and I want to continue to enjoy it!



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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 03:39 pm (UTC)
If they are jokes, just how is he possibly leading you on? I hate when girls (and I'm a girl) can't take a joke just because they have ~feelings~ for someone. Lighten up.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-09 10:43 am (UTC)
Things are more complicated than I can convey in an anonymous post. Sometimes he seems to not be joking and as I already said, sometimes I cannot tell.

and who says I am not "lightened up?" I can "take a joke" as well as the next person. I laugh along with him, no matter what i am feeling inside. Like i said, this is just complicated and I was getting it out HERE rather than whine to him or something.
I hate it when people think they know everything about a situation.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-12 04:00 am (UTC)
I've been through the same thing, and it fucks with your mind a little. I don't know how much you value your friendship, but my friendship with this person was solely because I was slightly attracted to him, and he ended up hooking up with another girl, and I'm much happier leaving him behind.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 05:42 pm (UTC)
I don't understand how someone could be so hurtful. :(
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 05:59 pm (UTC)
He's coming in a week. I get sex for a week straight. I can't wait. I get all tingly just thinking about it. It's been much too long since we've gotten this sort of chance.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 06:29 am (UTC)
It takes him a whole week to come? Man, I thought I was bad with 25 minutes...
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 10:58 pm (UTC)
i know how you feel. My man came for about a month. and now I don't get to see him from anywhere between 1 and 2 years.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 07:46 pm (UTC)
Sometimes I wish I was a man just so I would know what it would be like to have gay sex...

And I would want to be the top. Most of the time...
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 10:56 pm (UTC)
guacamole = love
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 08:16 am (UTC)
Amen to that!
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-07 11:40 pm (UTC)
i'm having sex for the first time hopefully next time me and my boyfriend are getting together. any tips or things that would be helpful that i should know? other than the obvious 'lube, protection, make sure you want it' etc.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 03:41 pm (UTC)
If you're just losing your virginity, you wont be able to put any tips into working. You're just too inexperienced. I will offer some advice, though: if it turns out to be awkward and not at all magical, that's normal. Go with the flow and remember to not take it seriously. Sex is always awkward, uncomfortable, and not at all what anyone expects.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 02:32 am (UTC)
I finally really let go of all my worries and posturing and pretending while hanging out with my friends.

It was awesome. I feel like a new person, and I'm happier than I've been in a long time.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 03:27 am (UTC)
What did i get myself into...
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 06:17 am (UTC)
I love everything about you, but I don't love you.

Does that make any sense?
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 07:21 am (UTC)
perfectly. Except I think I'm going to marry the person I feel that about. I hope it's not a mistake...

The person I love? I hate everything he is, but I love him.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 03:42 pm (UTC)
If you don't love the person you're going to marry, then it is a huge mistake and it's awful for you to lead them on as long as you have. I feel sorry for them that they are going to marry someone who isn't in love with them. And you are a horrible person if you do go through with it. They deserve better, and you deserve to be with someone you actually will love.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 12:36 pm (UTC)
I hate public speaking. Passionately. I have to give a speech in an English class next week and I'm scared I'm going to start stuttering and freaking out before the five minutes is over. Ugh I hate that I've been worried about this since the beginning of the semester.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 02:56 pm (UTC)
I used to have to do this five times from middleschool through highschool. took me 5 years to stop freaking out about it.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 09:27 pm (UTC)
It's my second year of college and I still can't handle it.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-08 08:37 pm (UTC)
I didn't go through with it last November. Everyday that passes, I wish I had. The look on your face and the tears in eyes and the anger are the only reason I won't try again. But you're far away now.
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From: (Anonymous)
2009-03-09 11:33 am (UTC)
I fell in love two years ago, and I'm afraid it'll never happen again.
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